Monday, May 26, 2008

The night the lights went out

A few years ago, we had a monsterous hail storm that destroyed everything in its path. When I say monsterous, I mean this: It was the most bizarre thing I have ever witnessed. I had come home from work and Brent was still at school. There were tornado warnings all around us and all of a sudden the tornado sirens were blaring. I called Brent to tell him what was going on because I wasn't sure he knew what the tornado sirens were or what to do. When the sirens go off, it means take shelter immediately. He was in the basement of the pharmacy building so I knew he was safe. After we hung up, I was watching the weather guy on the tv urging people to take cover immediately when all of a sudden, I heard this loud thumping and cracking. Hail. I looked outside and baseball size hail was falling out of the sky all around me. I could hear windows being shattered and hail pounding the roof, threatening to break through. I was a little nervous because I didn't know what was going to happen. I felt any minute the hail was going to break through our windows and ceiling. It was so loud and I could hear things being blown around and shattering outside. I stood in the hallway where there were no windows and waited out the storm. When I finally heard silence, I knew the storm had passed and I could come out. I went outside on the balcony and looked out over the courtyard/pool area. It was a mess.
With all the glass shattering, I went outside to see what the damage was. My car was under the covered parking and the worst damage it sustained was a hail ball that bounced up and dented the hood. At the pharmacy school, there was no covered parking and the storm came so quickly, there was no time to put Brent's car under cover. Needless to say, his car did not get off so easy.
The sunroof and windshield were cracked all over and one of the other windows had been completely shattered. The rest of the car was a total loss. It was dented from bumper to bumper. Everyone in town sustained some sort of damage. My parents had windows broken at their house. Another family in the ward had grapefruit size hail crash through their roof into their house. For those lucky ones with comprehensive coverage on their cars, the body damage was so significant that insurance totaled their cars out and they were paid accordingly. We didn't have full coverage on Brent's car so we were unable to get it fixed. From then on, we called it the Golf Ball and drove around in complete embarassment of our dented up car.
Fast forward a few years and we come to last night. We were at my parents house eating dinner and an ominous storm began to roll in. The news was saying that there was large hail and tornadoes spotted so plan accordingly and be prepared to take cover. My dad and my brothers and sister-in-law took their cars to find a covered spot to put them. Around here, people will park under anything they can to protect their cars from the hail if they don't have a garage or covered parking of some sort. You will see cars in bank drive thrus, under gas pump awnings, or my favorite, under the freeway overpass. You can fit a surprising amount of cars under a freeway. We opted to go home to put our car in the garage so as not to risk another "Golf Ball" episode. While we waited for the storm to roll in, we were standing on the front porch. Drew was running around the sidewalk and Avery was crawling around on the porch. I went back inside and when I flipped the light switch, nothing happened. I looked around and noticed the clocks were off and the house was dark. We had lost power. About this time, the rain starts to really come down followed by the wind and hail. We hurried everyone inside and watched the storm from inside our dark house. Although it was a pretty good storm, the hail didn't get any bigger than pea or nickel size and we never heard the tornado sirens. After the storm passed, it was now time to wait for the power to come back on. We only had about an hour of daylight left so I started to gather our flashlights and candles in case the power outage was more than an hour. This is what I came up with.
3 scented candles from Bath and Body Works and one Mag light flashlight. It was clear our emergency preparedness skills were lacking.

To pass the time we sat in the entry way and read books with the sunlight, Drew watched a movie on the Zune that just happened to be charged up and Avery crawled around on the porch.
We were losing daylight fast and by the time the sun had gone down, the power was still out.
We decided to head over to my parent's house as they had not lost power. We stopped at Sonic on the way to get a drink and what should have taken 5 minutes took 30 since everyone and their dog had the same idea. Since it took so long, instead of going on to my parent's, we headed back home to see if the lights had come back on. Nope. OK, back to my parent's where the air conditioning flowed freely and entertainment was in abundance. On the way, I asked Brent to stop at Wal-Mart so I could stock up on some candles since our supply was so pitiful. Plus, I was not going to waste my expensive candles to aid in our survival. While I was in the store, the kids fell asleep so instead of going on to my parent's house, we went home to put them in bed and wait out the power outage. It was about 10:00 so Brent went to bed but I wasn't tired so I stayed up to read. It just so happens that I am reading the book "Twilight." For those of you that don't know it is a book about vampires. This is normally not my type of book but it is a very popular one so I have finally been convinced to read it. And what better way to read a suspenseful book of the undead than by candlelight in an eerily quiet house. It was interesting....and a little heartpounding at times.
While I was reading, the power finally came back on and everything in the house kicked on and began humming and after more than 3 1/2 hours with no power, life was back to normal. When Drew woke up this morning, he was so happy to discover that we had "found" the power again.

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Growing Kids

I have noticed that the blog world is getting a little bit slow these days. People aren't updating their blogs as much as I would like. I am guilty of this myself, mostly for lack of something interesting to post. I suppose I could always just share some pictures.
We went out of town the other day and for the drive home, we decided to put Avery front facing so she could watch movies with Drew. She looked so cute in her big chair and she loved facing the front so she could see all the action. I can't believe how big she's getting.
Brent seems to think that Avery will pass up Drew in size any day now. When I look up their sizes in their baby books, Avery is no bigger than Drew was at this age.

Here they are both at 10 months.



















It's interesting to hear other people's opinion on the size of my children. When Drew was younger, people used to say "Wow! He walks really good for a 10 month old." And I would say "That's because he's actually 18 months." Both of my children are on the small side for their age so I'm always surprised when someone makes a comment on how big they are. I've realized that I will probably have petite kids so I'm curious to see how they grow as teenagers. For now I will just enjoy my tiny tots and the fact that Drew can still wear clothes I bought for him 2 years ago.



Monday, May 12, 2008

Congratulations!

Congratulations to my brother, Jon. He graduated from Texas Tech University this past Saturday in Lubbock. He graduated Summa Cum Laude with his Bachelor's Degree and now he's on to bigger and better things. He has been accepted to the University of Texas-Houston Dental School and will be starting there in August. We are so proud of him and his accomplishments and know that he will do well in dental school. Congratulations Jon!
While we were at his ceremony, it reminded me of being at Brent's Pharmacy school graduation from Texas Tech a couple of years ago (2006). I cried when they called his name because I was (and still am!) so proud of him. I knew how hard he had worked for so many years to get to that point. It was finally time to move out into the real world with no more Spring Break or summer vacation. We had to move from carefree college students to responsible adults with a "real" job.
And of course it reminded me of my own graduation from Idaho State University many moons ago (actually just 5 years) with a Bachelor's degree in Psychology. I really loved going to school and even though I was happy to have reached my goal, I was a little sad that it was over. I knew no matter what path I would venture down, I was ultimately going to be a stay at home mom so I knew my college days were pretty much over. I know I can always go back but right now I am enjoying my role as a domestic engineer. If only I remembered more of my psych classes so I could use those techniques on Brent and the kids. Maybe I still have some old books laying around....

Friday, May 9, 2008

Motherhood

I remember when Drew was born I was, of course, a first time mom and didn't know what to expect as far as emotions for this new little person and motherhood as a whole. I remember feeling like I loved Drew so much it hurt. I wanted to protect him from everything and it hurt to think that I might not be able to do that. I wanted to shield him from everything and anyone that might be harmful to him. Before I had children, I thought that motherhood was all sunshine and roses. Little did I know that at times it would be frustrating and hard, bring me heartache and sadness and completely exhaust me. But I also underestimated how much happiness it would bring me, how rewarding, fulfilling and wonderful it would be. I absolutely love, Love, LOVE being a mom and I simply adore Drew and Avery. I still worry about trying to raise them up in a sometimes scary world but all I can do is teach them the right way and pray that they follow the Gospel throughout their lives. What a great and wonderful responsibility we have as mothers to raise Heavenly Father's children and teach them the right way. I still don't know what I've done to deserve these two little blessings in my life but I'm glad that I have been entrusted with them.
There are so many reasons that I love being a mom and here are a few:

  • There is nothing like that first toothless grin from your baby to make you feel on top of the world.
  • When they are crying or sad and all they want is their mom to feel better, it is nice to be their comforter.
  • Watching them sleep at night can (usually) erase all the frustration of the day. They are so peaceful and sweet.
  • I know more about anatomy and bodily functions than I ever learned in school.
  • Even though I may yell at them or be a mean mommy, they still love me .
  • Seeing the world through a child's eyes is very humbling. They find joy in the simplest things. They don't care about having the biggest and the best stuff, all they need is love and support.
  • Even though my house is a mess and I feel the most disorganized I have in my whole life, I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world because the mess and the chaos is a reminder of how blessed I am.

I could go on and on but the bottom line is that being a mother has brought me such exponential joy and I feel greatly blessed to have the opportunity to raise my children. It has given me a greater appreciation for my mother and other mothers that are doing their best to raise their children right. So Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers, especially to my mom. I'm surprised you survived past my teenage years--you really are the best. Thanks for everything, I love you.

Monday, May 5, 2008

Tag, I'm it.

It's no fun to check a blog only to find that the blogster hasn't posted something new in awhile *cough*Danielle*cough*. So I was wondering what I could blog about since I'm in need of a new post. Nothing exciting is happening here. This morning, I thought Avery broke her nose but that story is really anti-climactic (no broken nose but one broken picture frame). Then I remembered that I had been tagged by my good friend Megan. So here are a few things you may not know about me and most likely never cared to find out.

3 JOYS:
1. My kids
2. Brent
3. Seeing the numbers go down on the scale

3 FEARS:
1. Losing a child or my husband
2. Dying young
3. Spiders

3 GOALS:
1. Lose weight
2. Keep my house clean for more than 30 minutes
3. Be a better mom

3 CURRENT OBSESSIONS/COLLECTIONS:
1. I like to collect money. Any kind, I'm not picky.
2. I love to read. Mostly British chick lit because it's light and I don't have to think too hard.
3. Scrapbooking. I was in a creative slump for awhile but my interest is renewed and now I can't stop! When my scrapbook magazine comes in the mail every month, I'm like a giddy school girl.

3 RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME:
1. I like Barney. That's right, the big purple dinosaur. I thought he was lame when I was a teenager because everyone else did but I had never seen the show. Now that I'm a mother with kids that like to watch him, I see the wisdom in Barney. I don't find him annoying at all. Plus I think Baby Bop is funny.
2. When I was younger, I used to lay in bed at night and think about my dream wedding day hairstyle. It involved a banana clip and a really tight perm. It was hot.
3. I love reality shows. Especially the trashy ones like "I Love New York" or "Rock of Love." If I were a stripper with an attitude, I would so try to win Bret Michaels' heart.

5 PEOPLE I TAG: I don't tag anyone because I think everyone has already done this.